A former student of the Obafemi Awolowo University (OAU), Ile Ife, Osun State, who made the transition from being a male to a female, revealed in a 2001 interview that he was a man in a woman's body.
A former student of the Obafemi Awolowo University
(OAU), Ile Ife, Osun State, who made the transition from being a male
to a female, revealed in a 2001 interview that he was a man in a woman's
body.
In the interview granted after he was expelled from OAU after his sex escapades with fellow males became public knowledge, Dapo Adaralegbe claimed he started having sex at the age of six.
“I
told you I started having sex at the age of six, but no one in my
family noticed the problem until I was 14 years old," he said at the
time.
Adaralegbe is now known as Stephanie Rose, becoming Nigeria's first transgender after plastic surgery in Europe.
Read the entire interview:
“I
was studying Law at the Obafemi Awolowo University, (OAU), Ife. I am of
the 1995 set, but I had to leave school in 2001 because of pressures.
People were too harsh on me; they did not understand me at all.
"When
I was in school, the school authorities got to know that I slept with
my fellow male students. There was also an incident when I had to be
admitted in the hospital. I was bleeding from the anus and I had bad
pile arising from sexual intercourse.
“When the
school got to know the kind of person I was, they sent me to meet a
Guidance Counselor, Professor Roger Makanjuola, who was the Vice
Chancellor, who took care of me. You know he is a renowned
Psychiatrist. He handled all issues relating to psychiatry with me.
"He
said I was okay and that nothing was wrong with my preferences,
sexual-wise. He said it was just because I lived in an environment that
did not tolerate that kind of behavior.
"He
recommended that I should meet another Guidance Counselor but I did not
follow up. Even at that, there seems to be very little assistance one
can get medically in Nigeria.
“After a time, I
tried going back to school but they told me I have stayed too long away
from the system. I applied to change over to University of Lagos
(UNILAG) and OAU authorities promised to assist with my transcripts,
but they did not send it early, that was how I lost the chance of
changing to UNILAG. I eventually dropped out of school.”
“I
know this will shock you but I started having sex at the age of six. I
had this cousin of mine who used to bring his friend to our house. He
was the first to make love to me.
“Since I was
small, I realized that I had this feeling that I was a woman. I used to
paint myself up and wear girls’ clothes. Nobody stopped or cautioned me.
My mother later died when I was 11 years old. My father has other wives
and no one particularly bothered about me. I am the last child of my
mother, she had four of us."
“I told you I started
having sex at the age of six, but no one in my family noticed the
problem until I was 14 years old. My father is a Professor of Education.
My mother was also a Professor in the same discipline. When my dad got
to know, I think he was among the people who made Professor Makanjuola
to examine me.
“The truth is that I had gone too far, and I don’t want to talk about my family in this issue.
"I have slept with a lot of people but my problem is that they were not faithful to me.
"They
were not committed; we just have sex and they go away. I wish to have a
committed partner that is why I have been trying to get a real lover,
one that will care about me.
"In the alternative, I will like to relocate abroad where my kind exist.
"In
the University, I had several lovers but they were not serious. I have
several men that I sleep with, I won’t mention their names. They cut
across the low and highly placed, just let’s leave it at that. What I
want is a committed partner.
"If I had a choice
between getting cured and going for a surgery that will change my sex
to a woman, I will prefer becoming a full woman.
“I
am already a transsexual, the difference between me and other
homosexuals are that while they just have the preference for sleeping
with fellow men, I feel that I am a woman; I feel that someone should be
making love to me the way men do to women.
"Since
I started having sex, I am usually the female, the dormant partner. But
do you know that right now, I need two things; a lover that is
committed to me or help me to relocate out of this country."
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